A piece of advice for you womens

1. Do not even approach anything which amounts to shirk ( polytheism )
2. Do not involve yourself in witch-craft and superstitious remedies in order to conceive children or to keep      them alive.
3. Do not hold faatihah and niyaaz ceremonies for walis.
4. Do not take oaths in the name of pious people.
5. Do not do anything for name and fame.
6. Be obedient to your husband
7. Do NOT listen to music.

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10 Tips on How to be a Successful Wife

1. Make Dua to Allah to make your marriage and relationship successful.

All good things are from Allah. Never forget to ask Allah ta’ala for the blessing of having a successful marriage that begins in this Dunya and continues on - by the Mercy of Allah ta’ala - into Jannah

2. *Listen and Obey!*

Obeying your husband is Fard! Your husband is the Ameer of the household. Give him that right and respect.

3. *Always seek to please your husband, for he is your key to Jannah.*

Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - taught us that any women who dies in a state where her husband is pleased with her, shall enter Jannah. So .. please him.

4.  An argument is a fire in the house.

Extinguish it with a simple ‘I’m sorry’ even if it is not your fault.When you fight back, you are only adding wood to the fire. Watch how sweetly an argument will end when you just say sincerely, “Look, I’m sorry. Let’s be friends.”

5. Thank your husband constantly for the nice things he does.

Then thank him again. This is one of the most important techniques, as the opposite is a characteristic of the women of hellfire.4. An argument is a fire in the house.

6. Joke and play games with your husband.

A mans secret: they seek women who are light-hearted and have a sense of humor. As Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - told Jabir to marry someone who would make him laugh and he would make her laugh.

7. Always wear jewelry and dress up in the house.

From the early years, little girls have adorned themselves with earrings and bracelets and worn pretty dresses - as described in the Qur’an. As a wife, continue to use the jewelry that you have and the pretty dresses for your husband.

8.  Review the characteristics of the Hoor Al-Ayn and try to imitate them

The Qur’an and Sunnah describe the women in Jannah with certain characteristics. Such as the silk they wear, their large dark eyes, their singing to their husband, etc. Try it, wear silk for your husband, put Kohl in your eyes to ‘enlarge’ them, and sing to your husband.

9. When your husband comes home, greet him with a wonderful greeting

Imagine your husband coming home to a clean house, an exquisitely dressed wife, a dinner prepared with care, children clean and sweet smelling, a clean bedroom - what would this do to his love for you? Now imagine what the opposite does to him.

10. Use your ‘beauty’ to win the heart of your husband

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What is the Status of Women in Islam

Contrary to the customs practiced in most of the Muslim world today, Islam granted equal but not the same status to men and women, 1400 years ago.The Qur’an specifically declares that the souls of men and women are equal, and that obligations and rewards are equally bestowed upon both. In Verse 124 Chapter 4 of The Holy Qur’an, God Almighty says:

“If any do deeds of righteousness – Be they male or female – and have faith, they will enter Heaven, and not the least injustice will be done to them.”

Although, men and women are equal in the eyes of God, Islam acknowledges that they are physically, biologically, and emotionally different. It is for this reason that some lifestyle details are different. A woman is made to be a mate or companion for man, and is not to be considered a source of all evil, but a blessing from God.

Islam granted women complete economic independence, before and after marriage. A Muslim women is under no obligation to provide for or supplement the family income. The husband has the entire responsibility.

Islamic law gives women the right to choose their husbands and to initiate a divorce. Muslim women have always had the right to vote, a right achieved by the women in the West only recently.

Prophet Muhammad said: “Paradise is under the feet of your mother.”

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Women and Beauty

There is something that has been on my mind for 2 days now and I have held it inside long enough. I am one of those people that read pretty much most of the articles and news reports that my friends post because as I have always said, “Knowledge is power” and I always seek new knowledge. So , here I go again speaking what’s on my mind.

I keep seeing posts from friends about women in Islam shouldn’t do this, are not allowed to do that and should never participate in this or that. Wait a minute! Let’s talk about some things for a minute. The Quran says, “And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands’ fathers, their sons, their husbands’ sons, their brothers or their brothers’ sons, or their sisters’ sons, or their women, or the slaves whom their right hands possess, or male servants free of physical needs, or small children who have no sense of the shame of sex; and that they should not strike their feet in order to draw attention to their hidden ornaments. And O ye Believers! Turn ye all together towards Allah, that ye may attain Bliss.” [Q 24:31] The Quran is telling the woman to protect her modesty.

Modesty is…

1. The state or quality of being modest,

2. Reserve or propriety in speech, dress, or behavior,

3. Lack of pretentiousness; simplicity.

The website that lists this definition can be found at http://www.thefreedictionary.com/modesty

The Quran states that women should, “not display their beauty”.

Beauty is…

1. the quality or aggregate of qualities in a person or thing that gives pleasure to the senses or pleasurably exalts the mind or spirit

2. a beautiful person or thing

3. a particularly graceful, ornamental, or excellent quality

The website that lists this definition can be found at http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/beauty.

Now, let’s discuss beauty in both the Quran and the websites I have listed above. We are instructed to cover our bodies, lower our gaze and guard our modesty. This is what I love about Islam and the Quran. That it is clear and precise in its meanings to all of us. In this same instance it invites us to use our own judgment that ALLAH (swt) himself has given us. So, here is my problem. It appears to me that beauty is in her ways, her speech, her behavior, her qualities and her character. So when I read articles that are stating, sisters take your pictures down as The Quran states you should hide your beauty. I want to know the person who wrote this article. Where in the Quran or any other book does it state that women are ONLY an outer appearance and that this is the only beauty she has? Mind you I completely understand the concept and clearly get the point BUT this is where I will also call the brothers out and advise you all of what The Quran tells you. “Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do.” [Q 24:30]”

In no place does it mention that you should hide your beauty but rather to lower your gaze and guard your modesty. So, my point in this is simple. Beauty is pleasing to the heart and not the eyes, soothing to the soul and mind. In your perception of beauty lower your gaze and see a woman for who she is and not for how she looks. Beauty is what it is. It is we the people who have made it something very different than its original meaning. In this instance the meaning of modesty for men is simple. Mind your character and morals, understand how others see you and know that you are a direct reflection of the men of Islam. Islam forces you to talk to my face and not my chest. So as you are posting pictures of female body parts and surfing Facebook to add less than modest women, know that YOU TOO should guard your modesty. Don’t always point the fingers at the sisters.

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